For I Am With You

“Do not be afraid, but continue to speak, and do not keep quiet. For I am with you, and no one will lay a hand on you to harm you, for I have many people in this city.” — Acts 18:9–10 There is a lie the enemy whispers into every believer’s heart—but sings at the

In the Valley: God’s Heart For Those Facing Suicidal Ideation

Trigger warning: This post discusses suicidal ideation (SI). Please read only if you think this could be helpful for your well-being.  No matter your beliefs - whether you are a Christ-follower or not - the subject of suicidal ideation is deeply personal and often hard to talk about. Because it is often misunderstood, it is

The Gift of Grief: How Sorrow Makes Space for Empathy

In the first few months after the accident, I was still in shock. I couldn’t wrap my mind around the fact that she was really gone. Denial acted like a buffer, keeping me from having to feel the full weight of it. It was too much, so I just kept moving, trying not to think

Forgetful Hearts, Faithful God: Setting Up Stones in the Midst of Trauma

I often judge the Israelites in the Old Testament, especially when they wander in the wilderness after being freed from Egypt. Didn’t God just provide for them a chapter ago, and now they’re complaining again? Why? How could they forget so easily? But then I’m reminded of that verse about judging others before examining yourself—something

Trauma is Exhausting: God’s Call to Rest After Trauma

Throughout my life, I’ve experienced seasons of trauma and prolonged stress, and one thing has become clear: it’s utterly exhausting. The exhaustion doesn’t just come during the trauma—it often hits hardest afterward. I used to get so frustrated with myself, thinking I was just being lazy. Some days, even getting out of bed felt like

When Words Hurt: How Pride and Trauma Impact Our Interactions

Every communication consists of at least one sender, a receiver, and a message. Here's an example of what this looks like. Years ago, I (the sender) attempted to have a conversation with someone I knew (the receiver).  She was abrupt and intimidating and would resort to bullying to get her way. So, I decided to

Is This Trauma?

In the course of human experience, trauma emerges as a complex response to fractured realities. It's a storm that disrupts life's steady rhythms, leaving individuals to grapple with feelings of hopelessness, fear, and lack of self-worth. The aftermath of trauma extends beyond emotional turbulence. Unpredictable emotions, haunting flashbacks, strained relationships, and even physical symptoms become

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